But not a real poll because I’m too lazy to figure out how to put a poll in (and no, I don’t want you to tell me how easy it is, I’m perfectly happy in my ignorance).
And we meander back to the point, which is:
What are your thoughts on your spouse remarrying in the event of your untimely demise? (See, that doesn’t work as a poll anyway.)
I was chatting with one of my Dr. friends the other day and he says that on the rare(ish) occasion that he has this discussion with his wife, she’s not a fan of the idea of his remarrying. I’m given to understand that this is a normal reaction.
Apparently I’m not normal.
The idea of Sean remarrying is not even a little worrying to me. The thought of his not doing so on the other hand… Well, that’s no good. I want my kids to have a mother. (As long as I’m around they’ll have to make due with me but if Sean gets another chance I ‘d love him to pick someone who’ll do a better job with them.)
I want my husband to have a wife. I adore the man but he is prone to be a little moody and occasionally he need some one to tell him to get over himself, that’s the wife’s job. It happens to be a job at which I excel and I don’t really expect him to find someone better than me at that but he ought to find someone who’ll at least try.
I asked Sean the other day if he thought he’d remarry. He said maybe but that he wouldn’t be sealed to her. But that’s a whole other post and I have homework to do.